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According to this article on Vice giving birth, and raising a child for at least the first few years, makes the parent miserable/unhappy.

A horrifying study published last week in the journal Demography suggests that being a new parent makes you miserable.

My bias is this is strange as certainly all the anecdotal evidence seems to point in the opposite direction. My questions are 1) is this claim true 2) if it is true, what population does it apply to? For example the article states

The authors do point out that this only covers the strains of being a new parent, not the parent of an elementary school student, or a full-grown adult person, which might be a barrel of laughs for all anyone knows.

So elementary school starts at age 6 and that means children are most miserable to live with between 0-6?

I would expect their to be several factors including the state of the parents, such as health of child and income (even cultural things, such as preferential treatment over first born).

The study was done on German nationals.

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    Surely your questions would be answered by reading the paper itself? – Nate Eldredge Aug 14 '15 at 17:14
  • You should edit the question to indicate that the referenced data only applies to German nationals. Cultural differences could certainly be a factor. – user3169 Aug 14 '15 at 18:17
  • If I recall correctly Daniel Gilbert cites studies that come to that conclusion in his book Stumbling on Happiness but - I can't find my copy anywhere. Does anyone else have a copy handy? – Sam I Am Aug 17 '15 at 22:34
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The article directly links the papers abstract which in turn links the full paper. Both of which are always really nice.

What population does it apply to?

Subjective well-being levels over the period of having a first child. We measure levels of subjective well-being over the transition to parenthood, measured from two years before a child is born until the year after a first birth.

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We use data from the German Socio-Economic Panel Study (SOEP), a nationally representative longitudinal study of private households run by the German Institute for Economic Research (DIW Berlin). Every year, nearly 11,000 households and more than 20,000 persons are interviewed. The data provide information on all household members, consisting of Germans living in the old (West) and new (East) German states, foreigners, and recent immigrants to Germany.

Are new parents generally unhappy?

Life satisfaction three to five years before a first birth is high, at an average of 7.4 on a scale of 0–10. Life satisfaction increases in the year prior to and in the year of a first birth, and then decreases from the baseline level.

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Table 1 Descriptive characteristics of the analytic sample, SOEP 1984–2010

How is this measured?

Our key independent variable is parents’ subjective well-being, measured annually over the course of the transition to parenthood. Respondents were asked annually, “How satisfied are you with your life, all things considered?” Responses range from 0 (completely dissatisfied) to 10 (completely satisfied). This is a distal measure of overall positive well-being. Although this measure does not capture respondents’ overall experience of having a child, it is preferable to direct questions about childbearing because it is considered taboo for new parents to say negative things about a new child

I would expect there to be several factors including the state of the parents, such as health of child and income....

. Those who have a more difficult transition to parenthood are more likely to be women, have lower levels of household income, are less educated, and are less likely to be working.

Here's another news article about the study that's a bit more informative. Note though I'm not sure where they got the info on the comparison to other major life events. It's not in that study.

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