HereHere is a link that puts child kidnappings and disappearencesdisappearances in context. The figures are for Canada.
The first thing to notice is that of the 60,000 or so missing children in a typical year, there are about 100 times as many runaways as there are kidnappings. Of those kidnappings, 80-90% are parental abductions. The number of kidnappings by someone other than a parent (not necessarily a stranger) are around the 30-60 range per year. Essentially that means your likelihood of having a child kidnapped by a non-parent is about the same as winning a million dollars on the lottery.
HereHere is an exceptionally detailed study of kidnappings in Canada.